Hello.

Not many now who understand the needs of acknowledging, appreciating and thanking others.  

For just a simple courtesy, nonetheless, it seems to be very tough and complicated to do so.  And it is odd to realise that some people are very good at acknowledging, appreciating and thanking others yet never know and bother to acknowledge, appreciate and thank their family members, parents, siblings and relatives.  They do not see what friends can't do and what family can do.

Some would say; blame the parents as parents are the first contact to shape their children's characters and behaviours.  However, some would say; parents can't be blamed as children grow old, they have their own perception about life and they have their own concept about understanding life and understanding themselves.  These groups of grown up children may have the ideas that they know better than their old parents who never get a chance to reach University or even to a college.  And these children also may have some arguments with the parents about 'who knows more'.

That is reality.  If you are good, do not aspect others are good  too or for some reasons are better than you.  There are many excellent, successful and  helpful humans out there who fail to see the importance of acknowledging, appreciating and thanking others and their family members.

This attitude does not have to be taught but we, people, have to go back to the route and culture so that we realise where we begin.  Hence, realise who and what we were before.

   

LET ME BE THE ONE

Again and again she keeps thinking whether she is the only one. The only one for him.

Only by chance she found out something which can be worsen than what she knew before. Her whole life will fill with question marks if she never asks.  But...she won't ask.  She decides not to ask simply to keep a smooth relationship in 'that' house. 

You just can't imagine what she is dealing with. However, for people who have never been in that condition may find it silly and may see that as just another episode of a sad movie.  It is true and right.  You don't feel it if you never experience it.. But one thing you can do is not to take it as jokes.  One day, some day, another month, another year, you will never know whether your life will still be the same or you just join another characters in those sad movies.    

Life unexpected

Long ago, many used to believe in fairy tale. Yes, of course when we were small, cute, young and lack experience about life.  Soon we grow bigger, handsome and beautiful, older and life seems to be occupied with many expectations, we may realize how much fairy tales are far beyond the imaginations.

Life changes over time and as time flies, we are exposed to greater things in life.  Greater in the degree of tears and laughter. If we are lucky, we may find people who can let us share their happiness together.  Unfortunately, on the other hand, we may encounter with people who never want to share your pain and sorrow yet add thousands of tears into your life.    

Life is unfair. Life is unfair?

The answer is NO.

We have a choice. We may have many choices to make and to decide in life. We can always choose the right perfect things in life that suit us.  However, simple thing which we fail to see when choosing an ideal direction in life is the true needs of your heart .  When it starts to be in you, fail to know what our hearts want, we may live in misery as we start to pretend and  to hide things from our loved ones,  thus, limit yourself from grabbing true happiness.  Time which won't wait for anyone is wasted unnecessarily.
To me, life is about having and giving direction and path which allows us to know who we are and to encourage us to understand more about people, especially people who are closer to you.  We need to know who and what we are in order to get along with a concept that we call LIFE.  We paint our life white, black, blue...etc.  And we can destroy the paint  any time we want and at every possible way too.  But don't forget that we too can put extra colours and add extra tones to the existing paintings.  So, trust me, nothing is wrong with life.  We, human, have the right to meet the right people, to love and to to live with the right partner in life and to do all the right things for our life.  Therefore, as you know what your heart wants, try to understand the nature of that needs so that the boat you sail will lead you to the planned destination. By understanding your needs, you can shape your life more systematically, more organised and finally, more beautifully.

Jordan