Life unexpected

Long ago, many used to believe in fairy tale. Yes, of course when we were small, cute, young and lack experience about life.  Soon we grow bigger, handsome and beautiful, older and life seems to be occupied with many expectations, we may realize how much fairy tales are far beyond the imaginations.

Life changes over time and as time flies, we are exposed to greater things in life.  Greater in the degree of tears and laughter. If we are lucky, we may find people who can let us share their happiness together.  Unfortunately, on the other hand, we may encounter with people who never want to share your pain and sorrow yet add thousands of tears into your life.    

Life is unfair. Life is unfair?

The answer is NO.

We have a choice. We may have many choices to make and to decide in life. We can always choose the right perfect things in life that suit us.  However, simple thing which we fail to see when choosing an ideal direction in life is the true needs of your heart .  When it starts to be in you, fail to know what our hearts want, we may live in misery as we start to pretend and  to hide things from our loved ones,  thus, limit yourself from grabbing true happiness.  Time which won't wait for anyone is wasted unnecessarily.
To me, life is about having and giving direction and path which allows us to know who we are and to encourage us to understand more about people, especially people who are closer to you.  We need to know who and what we are in order to get along with a concept that we call LIFE.  We paint our life white, black, blue...etc.  And we can destroy the paint  any time we want and at every possible way too.  But don't forget that we too can put extra colours and add extra tones to the existing paintings.  So, trust me, nothing is wrong with life.  We, human, have the right to meet the right people, to love and to to live with the right partner in life and to do all the right things for our life.  Therefore, as you know what your heart wants, try to understand the nature of that needs so that the boat you sail will lead you to the planned destination. By understanding your needs, you can shape your life more systematically, more organised and finally, more beautifully.