Wednesday, 6 November 2013
Tuesday, 5 November 2013
Thursday, 31 October 2013
What then?
Eerrmmmm...she smiles looking at all old photos. "These are really old", she said.
It shows how old their relationship is. Not as old as in a true sense but it is as old as they have experienced living together.
Many that they have learnt together. Many that they were in an adventure about life together. Many that they have explored each other's arguments and patience.
Many to write here too.
What for sure, she's on the right path taking together along the way the love of her life.
And him...yes, she puts together this character back into her story as she loves this antagonist character very much.
:-)
Eerrmmmm...she smiles looking at all old photos. "These are really old", she said.
It shows how old their relationship is. Not as old as in a true sense but it is as old as they have experienced living together.
Many that they have learnt together. Many that they were in an adventure about life together. Many that they have explored each other's arguments and patience.
Many to write here too.
What for sure, she's on the right path taking together along the way the love of her life.
And him...yes, she puts together this character back into her story as she loves this antagonist character very much.
:-)
Go Travel and Living: LIFE unexpected!
Go Travel and Living: LIFE unexpected!: Life unexpected! Life changes every time. If you believe that your life has come to an end, has come to a conclusion, do not stop there. D...
LIFE unexpected!
Life unexpected!
Life changes every time.
If you believe that your life has come to an end, has come to a conclusion, do not stop there. Do not give it up. Find some ways to continue the plot. Change the characters in the story, change the story line, change the music, change the sound effect, change the colours, change the background, change the setting, and finally, you can change and improve the theme.
The movie you watched in the past about you is just another planned episode from Allah (swt)/God the al-mighty. What covers in each episode are lessons. We must know how to deal with the story line that we created, we must be strong if what we expected in the story line and with the characters are not as planned and arranged, but it is not wrong to cry still.
As we know how to troubleshoot the errors and flaws, we will somehow guide ourselves to wisely make a move to find better ways to live.
Once we move on and finally reach our destination, we'll appreciate more of the characters in the story, appreciate the settings, and of course we'll appreciate the time that has taught you great lesson about what is life and switched you into a more calm and steady individual. WHY steady? ...as you are not crying anymore, you are not being betrayed anymore, you finally can focus to life that may be unexpected!
Life changes every time.
If you believe that your life has come to an end, has come to a conclusion, do not stop there. Do not give it up. Find some ways to continue the plot. Change the characters in the story, change the story line, change the music, change the sound effect, change the colours, change the background, change the setting, and finally, you can change and improve the theme.
The movie you watched in the past about you is just another planned episode from Allah (swt)/God the al-mighty. What covers in each episode are lessons. We must know how to deal with the story line that we created, we must be strong if what we expected in the story line and with the characters are not as planned and arranged, but it is not wrong to cry still.
As we know how to troubleshoot the errors and flaws, we will somehow guide ourselves to wisely make a move to find better ways to live.
Once we move on and finally reach our destination, we'll appreciate more of the characters in the story, appreciate the settings, and of course we'll appreciate the time that has taught you great lesson about what is life and switched you into a more calm and steady individual. WHY steady? ...as you are not crying anymore, you are not being betrayed anymore, you finally can focus to life that may be unexpected!
Monday, 20 May 2013
My husband & I saved him
Alhamdulillah...We managed to make him a happy cat again. He's now recovering.
Monday, 28 January 2013
De'Chiengmai Thai, Seafood Restaurant
Finally, it is the day that my husband and I waited for. This special day is celebrated with my mum and husband.
Quite many places that we have been just seeking for good special taste food.
So, for this occasion, my husband had an idea to dine here. He used to eat there years ago when he was still a bachelor!! Huhu..Now, he should behave because he is married to me..haha..
The restaurant is located in Sg Buloh, Selangor. (...have to drive a bit far in the kampung area).
If you are driving along the north-south highway, take the exit of Sg Buloh Hospital. After toll is paid, drive until you reach a traffic light (in front of you is the hospital), then turn right. Drive straight and turn right at another traffic light. Then, continue driving (about 5-7 minutes driving) until you see the restaurant on your left. (They have a very large parking area).
CONTACT NO
OUR DINNER JANUARY 2013
CELEBRATING A SPECIAL DAY
ASPARAGUS COOKED IN PRAWN PASTE AND CILI
CHICKEN FEET SALAD/KERABU (in Malay)
Eemmm!!...OF COURSE WHAT ELSE....MIX TOM YUM
SIAKAP/SEABASS DEEP FRIED SWEET SOUR
DE'CHIENGMAI BEAN CURD
The food tastes just alright (not so tasty). Pricey.. You can check other blogs too about this Thai cuisine here. Many place almost the same comments.
I can recommend its Tom Yum (a bit sweet but OK), Asparagus with prawn paste (good) and their Longan syrap (lovely)..
Siakap sweet sour is very sweet until I cannot taste the sour flavour..Not my favourite, but can be my favourite if the chef considers the sourness in the recipe. But for those who like sweet fish, I recommend you this. My husband never complains as usual. So I just eat and enjoy the evening...You know what will the evening end up with if I were to complain about food in front of my him!! :-) So, I'd better follow the flow and the mood. So, I place my comments here..haha!! I know he reads too. But Ok in a written form I guess.
Bean curd is just OK, doesn't really show its authentic special signature...If you are into vegetables, you can order this. They add carrots, mushroom, chicken, soy sauce, etc.
Chicken feet salad - not impress me much because I was expecting for spicy Thai kerabu. But this kerabu is a bit sweet as well and it is not spicy at all.
I just wonder about this Thai cuisine in this restaurant as they prepare recipes with sweet taste rather than sour and spicy in comparison with places where I used to go and eat (Thai cuisines) which serve more sour and spicy taste.
But, I still recommend you to have great meal at the restaurant!
Because I believe that every one has a different food preferences.
De Chiengmai Thai Seafood
No 34, Kg. Sentosa, Bt. 13 Sg Buloh 47000
Sungai Buluh Selangor
De Chiengmai Thai Seafood
No 34, Kg. Sentosa, Bt. 13 Sg Buloh 47000
Sungai Buluh Selangor
Thursday, 17 January 2013
Husbands
2013 is not like what she is expecting.
2013 slowly builds a house of sadness to her life.
She is never a charm and jovial lady anymore.
Previously in her life, she used to be sad but she was strong. She never cries watching sad movies or listening to sad love songs.
But 2013 grows her tears into pain.
Now 2013, she cries when listening to sad love songs, she even cries watching sad movies.
Everything seems to be sad and all are tears.
And there are times when she can't wait to sleep, sleeping makes her forgets.
Sleeping can makes her feel relief. But, that's only her conscious assumption because she even dreams of her sad stories. She cries in her sleep. Without realising what she had in her sleep, she knows well when her face is wet with tears.
She doesn't know what may come next. She is just another sad wife on the street crying alone in a rain.
She prays hard so that everything will come back to what she expected before. She expected a happy marriage life after many years waiting to be a good wife to a man called husband.
She is confuse now.
Confuse whether he still wants her, whether their marriage is only on paper, or whether she is not the one since the beginning!!
Only God knows how this is.
What should she do now? She is gambling her future now.
To stay or not to stay? To love or not to love? But all arguments are like germs and virus.
If she happens to leave him, she will miss him and continuously hurt her so. So what then?
The last time she tells, she just wants her marriage back, she misses her husband much, she still wants to stay...WHY? All because she loves him very much.
Husbands out there, please care for your wife, don't hurt them. Wife's heart is so fragile and soft.
Hard to love you at the beginning but easy to cry for you when she loves you so much.
Husbands, please love your wife. Don't betray their love to you and please stop cheating on them.
The girlfriends you may have outside are not your life warranty to be happy at the end.
Legal wedded wife is the one who stays with you during your ups and downs.
Wife will wipe your tears when you are sad and will stay close to you when you are sick.
Wife will make you smile when you exeperience bad day.
Wife will sacrifice when you don't have enough financial support.
Wife will not buy expensive things.
BUT, Wife will just love you forever until she dies.
2013 slowly builds a house of sadness to her life.
She is never a charm and jovial lady anymore.
Previously in her life, she used to be sad but she was strong. She never cries watching sad movies or listening to sad love songs.
But 2013 grows her tears into pain.
Now 2013, she cries when listening to sad love songs, she even cries watching sad movies.
Everything seems to be sad and all are tears.
And there are times when she can't wait to sleep, sleeping makes her forgets.
Sleeping can makes her feel relief. But, that's only her conscious assumption because she even dreams of her sad stories. She cries in her sleep. Without realising what she had in her sleep, she knows well when her face is wet with tears.
She doesn't know what may come next. She is just another sad wife on the street crying alone in a rain.
She prays hard so that everything will come back to what she expected before. She expected a happy marriage life after many years waiting to be a good wife to a man called husband.
She is confuse now.
Confuse whether he still wants her, whether their marriage is only on paper, or whether she is not the one since the beginning!!
Only God knows how this is.
What should she do now? She is gambling her future now.
To stay or not to stay? To love or not to love? But all arguments are like germs and virus.
If she happens to leave him, she will miss him and continuously hurt her so. So what then?
The last time she tells, she just wants her marriage back, she misses her husband much, she still wants to stay...WHY? All because she loves him very much.
Husbands out there, please care for your wife, don't hurt them. Wife's heart is so fragile and soft.
Hard to love you at the beginning but easy to cry for you when she loves you so much.
Husbands, please love your wife. Don't betray their love to you and please stop cheating on them.
The girlfriends you may have outside are not your life warranty to be happy at the end.
Legal wedded wife is the one who stays with you during your ups and downs.
Wife will wipe your tears when you are sad and will stay close to you when you are sick.
Wife will make you smile when you exeperience bad day.
Wife will sacrifice when you don't have enough financial support.
Wife will not buy expensive things.
BUT, Wife will just love you forever until she dies.
Tuesday, 15 January 2013
Not many now who understand the needs of acknowledging, appreciating and thanking others.
For just a simple courtesy, nonetheless, it seems to be very tough and complicated to do so. And it is odd to realise that some people are very good at acknowledging, appreciating and thanking others yet never know and bother to acknowledge, appreciate and thank their family members, parents, siblings and relatives. They do not see what friends can't do and what family can do.
Some would say; blame the parents as parents are the first contact to shape their children's characters and behaviours. However, some would say; parents can't be blamed as children grow old, they have their own perception about life and they have their own concept about understanding life and understanding themselves. These groups of grown up children may have the ideas that they know better than their old parents who never get a chance to reach University or even to a college. And these children also may have some arguments with the parents about 'who knows more'.
That is reality. If you are good, do not aspect others are good too or for some reasons are better than you. There are many excellent, successful and helpful humans out there who fail to see the importance of acknowledging, appreciating and thanking others and their family members.
This attitude does not have to be taught but we, people, have to go back to the route and culture so that we realise where we begin. Hence, realise who and what we were before.
For just a simple courtesy, nonetheless, it seems to be very tough and complicated to do so. And it is odd to realise that some people are very good at acknowledging, appreciating and thanking others yet never know and bother to acknowledge, appreciate and thank their family members, parents, siblings and relatives. They do not see what friends can't do and what family can do.
Some would say; blame the parents as parents are the first contact to shape their children's characters and behaviours. However, some would say; parents can't be blamed as children grow old, they have their own perception about life and they have their own concept about understanding life and understanding themselves. These groups of grown up children may have the ideas that they know better than their old parents who never get a chance to reach University or even to a college. And these children also may have some arguments with the parents about 'who knows more'.
That is reality. If you are good, do not aspect others are good too or for some reasons are better than you. There are many excellent, successful and helpful humans out there who fail to see the importance of acknowledging, appreciating and thanking others and their family members.
This attitude does not have to be taught but we, people, have to go back to the route and culture so that we realise where we begin. Hence, realise who and what we were before.
Tuesday, 8 January 2013
She will stop crying but...
She cries a lot lately.
He is blind to see
that.
She tells him that she is sad.
He never asks why.
She tells him she knew something.
He never wants to know what.
She tells him she found out something.
He never bothers to find out what too.
She continues crying.
He continues ignoring.
Until she dies, he regrets of being ignorance.
But still adapting to his old life style and so much comfortable
with it.
A womanizer!
Love hurts rhyme
He was once captured her
heart.
He was once somebody she
loves...so much.
He was once a man whom
she thinks can take care of her until their dying day.
He was once a loving husband
who she believes loves her with all his heart.
He was once a caring
husband who she admires and who she puts on trust so much.
But now he's the torn
within her heart and soul.
The torn which never
fails to put tears into her eyes.
The torn which always be
there so long he never realizes his fault.
The torn which one day
will kill her.
Her tear drops are so
genuine, crying for her loved ones.
Crying to reveal the
truth, crying to reveal his sins, crying to be happy again.
LOVE HATE
You can love your husband or your wife so dearly. But to start loving him/her in the beginning is a tough one. You need to know him/her, whether he's/she's good or bad. Only then, you can start your journey to explore him/her until finally you find love in him/her. (BUT don't trust him/her 100%).
Then, marry him/her and make him/her your life partner until you die...but not all who are lucky to have your husband or wife until the end of time.
Time can change you. Time can switch from love to hate.
Time too, can bring back the love which you have missed.
Time can do a lot here if you talk about love between a husband and wife.
Unfortunately, one may have difficulty to forgive and forget. If you don't know him or her, you can start your love plot and sail the boat together happily. BUT if you start hate him/her throughout your journey of married life, it is difficult to turn back. It is difficult to love back when you hate!
So, my advice, love and love...and be sincere, honest, and loyal to your husband or wife....because once you betray, the hatred is always there even though some can forgive.
It is sad to know if you are being cheated. Or have been.
It is so painful to imagine what your husband or wife does on the other side of your world with that creature.
It is hurt when he or she never realizes the mistake done and never apologizes.
Therefore, please don't lie to your husband or wife because you are not going far. Sooner or later, your husband or wife will find out! And that is too late. You are not going to be happy again though you try. The punishment period will always find you...!!!
Your lips may say ok, let's start a new life. But your heart speaks all the sadness, hatred, and grudge quietly.
Additionally, it is sickening too to find out that your husband or wife are having an affair with his or her ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. Why can't he or she marry this creature earlier on isn't it? Why must he or she then marry you instead and ruin your life?? The world is just not being fair to the good ones...I don't know...
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