LOVE HATE

You can love your husband or your wife so dearly. But to start loving him/her in the beginning is a tough one. You need to know him/her, whether  he's/she's good or bad. Only then, you can start your journey to explore him/her until finally you find love in him/her. (BUT don't trust him/her 100%).

Then, marry him/her and make him/her your life partner until you die...but not all who are lucky to have your husband or wife until the end of time.  

Time can change you. Time can switch from love to hate.

Time too, can bring back the love which you have missed.

Time can do a lot here if you talk about love between a husband and wife.

Unfortunately, one may have difficulty to forgive and forget. If you don't know him or her, you can start your love plot and sail the boat together happily. BUT if you start hate him/her throughout your journey of married life, it is difficult to turn back. It is difficult to love back when you hate! 

So, my advice, love and love...and be sincere, honest, and loyal to your husband or wife....because once you betray, the hatred is always there even though some can forgive.  

It is sad to know if you are being cheated. Or have been.

It is so painful to imagine what your husband or wife does on the other side of your world with that creature.  

It is hurt when he or she never realizes the mistake done and never apologizes.

Therefore, please don't lie to your husband or wife because you are not going far.  Sooner or later, your husband or wife will find out! And that is too late.  You are not going  to be happy again though you try. The punishment period will always find you...!!!

Your lips may say ok, let's start a new life. But your heart speaks all the sadness, hatred, and grudge quietly.

Additionally, it is sickening too to find out that your husband or wife are having an affair with his or her ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend.  Why can't he or she marry this creature earlier on isn't it? Why must he or she then marry you instead and ruin your life?? The world is just not being fair to the good ones...I don't know...